The Writings of Patrick O'Donnell

Thankful

Gratitude is often seen as a simple expression, a polite gesture, or a fleeting moment when things are going well. Yet, when we pause long enough to truly understand it, we begin to see that gratitude is more than just a passing thought—it’s a deep, soul-stirring response to the richness of life, even in its hardest seasons. As we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, this season invites us not only to give thanks for the good that fills our lives but also to look more closely at the unseen blessings that are woven through our pain, loss, and longing.

There are moments in life when we find ourselves in the middle of an overwhelming storm. The waves of difficulty crash around us, threatening to pull us under, and in those moments, gratitude can feel like an impossible ask. Yet, if we look closely, even in the shadows of our struggles, there is something we can hold onto—a quiet, almost imperceptible whisper of grace. Gratitude, in these moments, becomes more than just thankfulness for what we can see. It becomes a lifeline, a choice to recognize the presence of God’s love even when everything else feels uncertain.

It’s in the small things that gratitude often catches us by surprise—the warmth of a comforting touch, the soft light of an autumn sunset, or the sound of laughter filling a room where silence once reigned. These moments, though fleeting, hold the power to remind us that we are not alone. The world may seem chaotic, but these gifts, though simple, reflect a deep truth—that there is beauty even in the brokenness. It is not a gratitude born from perfection, but from the ability to see beyond the imperfections and to recognize the grace that holds us up.

True gratitude, the kind that transforms our hearts, is not just about being thankful for the good in our lives. It is about seeing God in all things—the moments of joy, the trials that seem unending, and even the quiet, mundane spaces between. Gratitude is the posture that allows us to sit in the tension of life—the tears and the smiles, the heartache and the healing—and still be able to whisper, “Thank you.” It is a choice we make, day after day, to let our hearts be soft and open to the goodness that surrounds us, even when it feels like it’s hiding.

There is a depth to gratitude that runs deeper than the surface-level thanks we give for tangible blessings. It is a thankfulness that reaches into the deepest places of our souls, recognizing that even in our vulnerability, God is present. When the weight of life feels unbearable, and when we cannot find the words to express our sorrow or our joy, gratitude invites us to simply be. It invites us to acknowledge that, despite everything, we are held—held by love, held by hope, held by the grace that never lets go.

In the quiet of this Thanksgiving season, as we gather with those we love or sit alone with our thoughts, we are reminded that there is always something to be thankful for. It may not always be easy to see, and at times it may feel like a struggle to reach for, but gratitude has a way of drawing out what is hidden deep within. It draws out the gratitude for health in the midst of illness, the hope in the midst of despair, and the peace in the midst of chaos. It transforms our hearts from a place of want and longing into a place of contentment and trust, knowing that we are seen, known, and loved, regardless of what our circumstances may be.

This Thanksgiving, may we not just give thanks for the blessings we can see but also for the ones that are hidden, for those tender mercies that God extends to us in the quiet moments. May we open our eyes to the beauty of a life lived in the presence of grace, even when it feels like the road is long and weary. May we remember that gratitude is not just about counting our blessings—it’s about letting our hearts be filled with a deep, abiding sense of peace, knowing that we are part of a greater story, a story of love, redemption, and unshakable hope.

As we reflect on all that we are thankful for this holiday season, let us remember that gratitude is not simply an emotion, but a way of being. It is a way of seeing the world with eyes that are open to the goodness of God in every moment, in every season. It is a practice that we carry with us beyond the holiday, a practice that allows us to find peace, even when the world feels far from peaceful. In the end, gratitude is a gift that keeps on giving—one that not only changes our perspective but also our hearts, filling us with warmth, light, and an unshakable hope.

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